He enters into the home of this family recognizes that this child is grieving and in distress
something is wrong. He's not doing well and as busy as the prophet is and as so much is happening in the um and taking
care of all the matters of the, um he still recognizes what's happening with this child
And then he asks the people of the household, what's wrong with the child
And so they tell him and then the prophet our beloved. So La Laos approaches the child with so much gentleness and
asks the child in a very beautiful hadi, do you know this hadith that I'm referring to this companion
This is a hobby. He was very young, but we still call him as a hobby because he lived his contemporary of the prophets of
life. Sudden he lived in the same time period, but he was a child. And in this narration
we learned that his name is about a maid and the prophets of the Lord
he was said, goes to him and says, yeah, a o maid, oh a maid
Mahan and no. What did the No ray do? And the Nova if you can listen to the name Al Maid and Novae
You see that they're rhyming and you also understand that the prophet said of his eloquence is able to take Sarala right there on the
spot. Take the name of the boy. Rhyme it with the name of a little bird
He had learned that the boy had lost his pet bird and that's why he was so sad and upset and he clearly showed it
And when the prophet heard this from the family members, he didn't just dismiss it and go, oh, it's just a pet
Moving on. No, he actually was tuned in to the child and was able to go to him and look at how he actually asked
the question. He asked him, oh, a our maid. What did the n what did the bird do not
What did you do to the bird? Right. And so, and nor did he dismiss it
And nor did he belittle it? Nor did he minimize it? Nor did he blame him
And this is really important when we talk about Children and we talk about their emotions and we talk about how they're doing and being
tuned in with them. Validation is what we saw the prophets of Allah
So do in his head and his interaction with a b maid where he validated him without blaming he essentially in the
in the question. And the way he asked it, there was a validation in that this is Ok
it's not your fault, Pence is using, what did the bird do? And that
what did you do to the bird